A Pyrrhic victory is one costing so much it is tantamount to defeat. In the third century BC, King Pyrrhus of Epirus lost so many men while defeating the Romans in battle he declared, “Another such victory and I come back to Epirus alone.” A football team may win the game but lose its best players for the season due to injury. A workaholic husband may earn a raise only to see his family fall apart because of his neglect. Sometimes a win is truthfully a loss.